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A Turbulent Passage




        Dr. Alok Pandey


        Abstract
        Adolescence is a time of transition from childhood to youth. Like all other times of transition,
        adolescence is a period of uncertainty and of growth. It may either open the doors to several
        possibilities in us or else it can demolish our hopes. This article (part of a series) is meant to
        help navigate through this often-difficult transition.




                                                 stormy or smooth experiences one has, the
                                                 emergence of an adult who is responsible
                                                 and reasonable, aware of his goals and the
                                                 steps he intends to take in arriving at it, has
                                                 a fairly correct estimate of his strengths and
                                                 weaknesses and is able to combine his dream
                                                 or fantasy life with the real world in a mature
                                                 way without losing hold on either. For, while
                                                 it is true that each one is here to realise his
        Adolescence is a passage from childhood to  dreams (whatever they may be), it is truer that
        adulthood. Like all passages, this transition  the world in its totality is moving towards
        can be pleasant or painful, smooth or stormy,  expressing its own dreams of life. The two
        tranquil or turbulent. The experience of  may not always match. Often, the person
        this passage depends upon a number of  who is dreaming far ahead of the world’s
        factors — heredity and upbringing during  march, finds himself caught up in a struggle.
        the early years, the basic constitution and  In such situations, some may completely lose
        endowment, and the extent of leap intended  contact with the outer realities of life and
        from the background from which the child’s  shut themselves off in a private dream-world.
        personality is emerging and the kind of  Or else, as happens more often, one shuts
        future that is shaping itself in his thoughts,  off the dream-world completely, forgets
        feelings, even dreams and fantasies. When  or barters it in an attempt to adjust and
        the passage is successful through whatever  accommodate the practical necessities of life.


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