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Notes on counselling








        To work or not to work



        Dr. Soumitra Basu


        Abstract
        Equanimity in the being demands that if we know to work, we must know how not to
        work. That does not mean a lapse into inertia but a poise of silence, peace and timeless
        stability that facilitates creativity and supports the play of the outer being in time.





        As a youngster I was puzzled when I read  Work at the level of the physical mind
        Sri Aurobindo’s startling revelation that one
        must know not only to work but also not to  There were subjects who were too perfectionist
        work! If one learns the art of working, one  and were labelled as sporting obsessive
        must know the art of not working too!    personality disorder.  They functioned properly
                                                 if they were given time-bound tasks. In fact
        “To be able to work with full energy is  they excelled in work, perfectly executed tasks
        necessary — but to be able not to work is also  with great responsibility and often completed
        necessary (1).”                          the unfinished tasks of their colleagues too.
                                                 But if they were not placed under pressure
        Years later when I started clinical work as  to perform their idle mind would go on
        a psychiatrist, I gradually recognised the  ruminating unnecessary thoughts. They
        importance of that statement.            would try to remove unwanted thoughts
                                                 but could not do it. This frustrated them and
                                                 often led to depression. I realised that they
                                                 were seeking an escape from their unwanted
                                                 ruminations by taking refuge in work where
                                                 they could shift their focus to a productive
                                                 effort. I took up Sri Aurobindo’s cue and
                                                 started counselling such subjects that to be
                                                 steady both during work and without work
                                                 was needed for establishing equanimity in
                                                 the being.


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