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Suffering — the postman
Dr. Monica Gulati
Abstract
The Creator shines through each aspect of his creation. As this is the case, then each and every
darkness and challenge must hide a divine Truth within. Let us explore the darkness of suffering
and see what the hidden message is, veiled behind the dark and unpleasant façade. Can we allow,
in faith, to go intimately close to suffering and see its roots, origins, its reason for manifestation, for
being there? Let us engage in each experience of life as an exploration, to dig deeper, further, on
and on. For only this progression, this adventure, this exploration is a never- ending joy.
“Pain is the hammer of God to break something in me resists that happening. That
A dead resistance in the mortal’s heart… (1)” something in me would say: ‘This cannot
happen, how can it be? What about my
Emotional pain and suffering are words plans? How would I be able to live now?
which may sound very familiar. Each one of What bad have I done in my life to deserve
us reading these words has been through, or this?’ All these are thoughts which spring
may be going through, some or other kind of up in resistance to the happening of life, to the
suffering in life. Let us explore deeply into ‘isness’ of life. Whenever I become the resistance
this problem of our day-to-day suffering, and support the resistance further, suffering
which often becomes a lifetime of suffering is present. Wherever there is a resistance
with only a few respites in between. to whatever is, suffering will inevitably be
present. In the absence of this resistance
Origins of suffering from within the being, the suffering cannot
exist. Challenges of life will still be there,
When do I suffer? When I feel that I am in difficulties may still be there, but suffering
a certain life- situation, and I don’t want to would have no reason to be present. It seems
be there, I just want to be somewhere else. that suffering and resistance to the flow of
The situation does not agree with my image life are entwined with each other. An animal
or notion of what must have happened. I does not suffer; a plant or a bush or a tree
may be going through a broken relationship, does not suffer. It may rot, wilt, die away
or a disease, or loss of a person in life, and and become mud. Animals may go through
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