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Namah                                  Vol. 30, Issue 4, 15th January 2023





        Existence-Consciousness-Bliss. And the  Helping others, loving others, seeing them
        Vedaanta also says that we are a portion of  happy makes us happy. A good fight for
        This, whose quintessence is Delight. Just  justice makes us happy, even if the process
        think about it. Tears rolling down your  is painful and the goal is far off. Creating
        cheeks, with an aching heart and body,  art, enjoying dancing and playing good
        mind tortured by memories, you sit with  music, eating and cooking, everything that
        this thought — that we are That Delight,  puts us in a flow state, make us happy.
        Tad Vanam (Kena 4.6). It is a paradox,which  These are the many ways we exceed our
        is why life is called a mystery. Only in  ego-sense. We are then expanded beings
        sorrow can you practise happiness. Only  and this brings us great joy because we are
        the negative shows you how close you  indeed bigger beings than the individual
        are to the positive. Even if everybody is  ego. And when we can be connected to
        struck by the same grief, each individual  the universal AAtman, the transcendental
        is affected by it differently, and reaps a  being, we feel most expanded, and then
        different lesson. So how does one best  our delight is greatest. Which is why we
        cope with grief? If the more you are united  follow a spiritual path, and even the most
        to the Satchidananda, will you be closer to  external ritual gives a joy that brings with
        his AAnanda, even as you see the sorrows  it the Divine’s peace and love.
        of this world? Will you deploy a portion
        of yourself in this anityam asukhamm lokamm
        to  wallow in the mud and help a lotus
        grow out of it? And will this avalokitessvaar
        of yours be happy, knowing that perhaps
        it is doing the divine’s bidding? Will you
        be happy having disconnected with the
        world’s sorrows? Or are  you  thinking
        happiness can co-exist with unhappiness,
        or that satisfaction can be cultivated no
        matter what we get?


        Worldly happiness depends on the gap between  How does one create one’s own happiness?
        our expectations and reality. Something we  It needs self-confidence, perserverance,
        ought to be able to manage our self without  diligence, courage, patience, a positive
        external dependence. What can be better  attitude, and some more. This is the practice,
        than to be in control? A perfectly happy  the yoga, the hard part. Book knowledge is
        person will be happy all the time, because  helpful to know, and apply when the time
        he has woven his happiness himself with  comes, but not the real thing. It is someone
        his own soul-stuff. Apart from worldly  else’s perception, a wise man’s darssana. But
        joys, we have glimpses of a higher quality  this is where we have to start — weaving
        of  happiness.  Being  in  Nature  makes  with borrowed threads. It is the safety-net
        us happy, looking at a flower, a flash of  that will catch us in our downward fall. It is
        lightning that brings the promise of rain.  the trampoline that will throw us up from


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