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Namah                         A Healing Framework for Collective Trauma





        though it is in cold storage.            important part in interactions. In an open
                                                 forum, people don’t have the time to ponder
        Dialoguing with the Other                over their answer and deliver it massaged.
                                                 They will read others’ emotions real-time
        Process Oriented Psychology was conceived  and speak from their guts, which is often
        by psychologists Amy and Arnold Mindell,  the authentic word. Sometimes the word
        who started a Process Work Institute in  is not spoken, but a person involuntarily
        Portland, Oregon, USA. They also travel  uses some other channel of communication,
        around the world holding Open Forums  like a blush or shaking of a leg. This is a
        in conflict-zones. Open Forum is a group  secondary process that needs to be brought
        process where participants belong to one  forward and examined. Real-time exchanges
        or more communities that need to resolve  create the field — an atmosphere made up
        an issue or several issues. This technique is  of sensations, emotions, unspoken feelings.
        elaborated in Mindells’ books — Sitting in  And the field brings up time-spirits — roles
        the Fire, The Deep Democracy of Open Forums,  that need to be represented.
        The Leader as Martial Artist, and others. Process
        Work has many success stories around the  Contention I : Who Belongs to the Nation
        world, such as Northern Ireland, South  Unit?
        Africa, Los Angeles, Israel. It is a kind of
        conflict resolution technique that welcomes  The historical background of the problem is
        people from all strata of society to interact  very important to know when trying to resolve
        face to face. Even if the participants cannot  any conflict. This topic should be brought
        articulate their problems in words, there is  up during Open Forums. If the participants
        space for other channels of communication,  don’t bring it up themselves, facilitators need
        such as emotional, somatic, spiritual.  to. Another topic that needs attention at the
        Process work creates a safe space where  start, is the psychology of ‘othering’. It is a
        people are asked not to be afraid to raise  destructive stance — political and personal
        issues they have repressed, or of which they  — and needs to be kept clearly in mind while
        feel ashamed of, or angry, or vengeful, or  dialoguing with the perceived ‘other’. In
        despondent. Open Forum is a tool for Deep  the context of the Partition, the question of
        Democracy. It invites marginalised voices  identity needs to be addressed. Who belongs
        to speak up, and mainstream persons to  to the nation unit?
        practise deep listening. It even “embraces
        the terrorist”, who is often misunderstood,  The Indian subcontinent was rich in precious
        and unrepresented. Process work is an  metals; had many rivers and tropical
        invitation to “sit in the fire”, which means  plants producing ample food; had a large
        to face one’s worst fears, look the opponent  workforce, and a sound education system,
        in the eye, and discuss uncomfortable  complemented by a cultural heritage that
        subjects. Because only then can true healing  stood the test of time. India was never
        begin. There are other reasons a face-to-  politically united under one ruler. Pockets of
        face encounter is more fruitful than any  princely states with ever-changing borders,
        other kind of interaction. Time plays an  and bigger empires like the Maratha and


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