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Notes on counselling








        The therapeutic barter



        Dr. Soumitra Basu


        Abstract
        A full or partial therapeutic barter (non-monetary transaction) could not only fulfil
        economic obligations but could be creatively designed to be of therapeutic use and may
        not be limited to the economically disadvantaged only.





        It all started when a pre-adolescent schoolgirl  offering through monetary or non-monetary
        commented that it was wrong for me to take  means has been carried over in the therapist-
        fees from suffering people who consulted me  patient milieu. It is very common in Indian
        for counselling and therapy. In a way she  settings for villagers to offer vegetables, fruits
        was not wrong. Many existential problems  and even fishes to the therapist when they
        that are dealt with today in counselling  lack adequate monetary means of paying fees.
        were presumably resolved in earlier times  People from the weavers’ community often
        in spiritual and religious settings which had  present tokens like table-mats. A weaver
        no commercial overtures.                 couple I chanced to meet again two decades
                                                 after I had treated them presented me a
        However in the modern world of consumerism,  tablecloth with my name and my wife’s name
        it is Freud’s view, which even non-Freudians  stitched beautifully (my wife as a clinical
        love to quote, that one should not only take  psychologist had spent considerable time in
        fees but refuse to take negligible fees so that  counselling them along with me). They had
        therapy is not under-valued and the risk of  prepared it twenty years back but had not
        counter-transference can be averted.     come back after the lady who was the original
                                                 patient had recovered. Yet they had kept the
        Such Western standards cannot always be  stitched tablecloth with love hoping that one
        practicable in mixed economies like India  day they would present it to me if ever our
        where a section of the clientele have genuine  paths crossed again.
        difficulties in managing their finances. But
        the tradition of the guru-disciple relationship  Afterwards I found a novel way to deal with
        in India where the guru was always paid an  such non-monetary transactions. Patients who


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