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Namah                                  Vol. 29, Issue 3, 15th October 2021





        AAcaara                                  Hugging each other with joy, Tamberi said,
                                                 “I still can’t believe it happened. Sharing with
        This is the domain of our expressing ourselves   a friend is even more beautiful. It was just
        in the world within and outside. It represents   magical’. And Barshim added, ‘For me, coming
        our behaviour and actions in our everyday   here, I know for a fact that for the performance I
        living and our relationship with the self and   did, I deserve that gold. He did the same thing,
        others. It is the final amalgamation of our  so I know he deserved that gold (5).”
        thoughts and feelings into action. It is the sum
        total of what values we have imbibed, the  When we act for the welfare of others in the
        meaning making that we have internalised  eco-system, it adds a zest, purpose, a sense of
        through the interactions and experiences  fulfilment and satisfaction. This indicates that
        manifested in our behaviour and actions. In  striving for collective well-being enhances our
        essence, it is the outward manifestation and  personal well-being state in a manifold way.
        expression of all that is inside of us.  Sharing and contributing beyond self enables
                                                 an expansion, unity and abundance which
        The question to ask now is, as individuals  we have all experienced and can relate with.
        are we always happy and satisfied when
        our immediate expectations are met? Are we  What should we focus upon?
        selfish creatures to the core? Is the experience
        of joy and sense of fulfilment lasting or  The key therefore is going beyond the self,
        transient? Is our sense of well-being and  beyond the narrative of ‘I, me and mine’.
        balance likely to increase if the environment  If we are able to direct our mind for the
        around us and all those closely associated  betterment of the world, for the well-being
        with us are also in a similar state?     of all the stakeholders (humans, animals and
                                                 environment), we are in a position of creating
        As much as we rationalise otherwise, hostility  a collective positive state of well-being.
        around us impacts us negatively and good  This orientation is towards loksanngraha. This
        cheer brings a spring and positivity in our  simultaneously benefits the individual and
        inner and outer being. Engaging in activities  the collective. It helps bring people together
        that are purely for self-gain are likely to cause  and simultaneously  integrate one’s own
        discords in the eco-systems and do not allow  good (aatmakalyanna) with the collective welfare
        positive well-being experiences to flow deep  (sarvakalyaanna). The Bhagvadgıitaa verses 3.20,
        within.  The fact of the matter is that we are  3.21, 3.25 clearly elucidate this.  If loksanngraha
        happy when people around us are happy. We  becomes the goal, it would without doubt lead
        are all social beings and happiness in isolation  towards success and progress individually
        is contradictory to human nature. The Tokyo  and collectively. History provides evidence
        Paralympics 2020, where two friends shared  on societies that progressed and thrived on
        the gold medal for the high jump, rather than  the basis of a mind-set towards collective
        going for a tie-breaker, is a beautiful example  well-being and sustainability.
        of this. Not just the two of them, the world
        itself witnessed this and felt elevated in this  Our conditioning is such that consumption is
        experience.                              given a premium at the cost of contribution

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