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Namah                                  Vol. 32, Issue 3, 15th October 2024





        boundaries to acquire what we want. It is very  well-deserved admiration. Noble people are
        easy for strong desires to influence our mind  a fast-disappearing species in modern times
        and push us into taking wrong actions. Some  and the world needs them most now. Why
        take ‘shortcuts’ to succeed by resorting to  end up pursuing smallness when we can live
        tricks like lying, deception and manipulative  such a profound life?
        behaviour in the hope of getting what they
        want. The desire for status and richness, the
        wish to appear more intelligent than one
        is, the ambition to quickly rise up in one’s
        career, the idea to blindly compete with one’s
        neighbours, and even the need to control
        others around us are some of those motives
        that can push us into behaving in a harmful
        manner without fully being conscious. If the
        desire is intense, we can make risky choices
        and endanger ourselves which could end up
        tragically for some. Such is human slavery
        to desires! Quite rapidly, they transform us
        into animals.

        We can totally avoid this fate if we are careful
        enough to control our blind impulses as soon  The psychological burden of anxiety and
        as they surface. This requires a certain  boredom
        detachment and distancing from our desires,
        our life-events, and seeing them for what  Desires have taken a peculiar form in today’s
        they are and how they influence our mind and  times. Many want to gratify themselves
        action. Standing apart gives us a quietude that  immediately because it is possible to do so
        is necessary to make good decisions. When  in the modern technological age. But this is
        the consequences become clear to our eye,  a huge trap and a psychological burden to
        we can then use our will and wisdom to get  the young and old alike. For those who do
        rid of the very temptations (even ruthlessly,  not have the means, there is an enormous
        if need be) that could have led us on to the  pain of losing out. Those who feel lucky
        path of danger and to our downfall. If we are  enough to satisfy their pleasures soon become
        too involved in life, we cannot act prudently  desensitised to pleasures, bringing them even
        because our intelligence becomes fuzzy and  more dissatisfaction as a result (see ‘hedonic
        distorted, making it harder to make good  adaptation’ (5)). All that remains is added
        decisions. A witness-like attitude is a great  anxiety and boredom. It is better to rationalise
        help at all times.                       the eternal fact that desires will always keep
                                                 us dissatisfied and slowly move away from
        What more, with such a refined and upright  them. The key to restore a balance is to live
        character, we can stand as a great example  a simple and minimal life of few wants and
        of personal nobility to the world and earn a  needs.


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